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Asian Parent Punishments: Emotional Damage

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  • Steven He
    Steven He  4 개월 전 +31415

    Every parent taking notes in the back📝

    • dreamify
      dreamify 2 일 전

      thanks for the tips now my parents know my weakness

    • Mallory
      Mallory 2 일 전

      Doubt it, not everyone is as thick as him.

    • TryingWho
      TryingWho 3 일 전

      OOOO

    • Iggy Mad
      Iggy Mad 6 일 전

      The more i look this, the more i realize that Serbia and China are close family... Literally all of the asian parental jokes could be applied here 100% xD

    • Tyler Rothstein
      Tyler Rothstein 7 일 전

      No one can

  • Just Some Guy without a Mustache

    I think we can all agree that Steven He's way of saying "emotional damage" is so iconic at this point.

    • Stephanie N
      Stephanie N 3 일 전

      I have seen other KRcliprs pop in a clip of Steven saying “Emotional Damage” (with citation)! Almost spit out my tea laughing!

    • bandu
      bandu 14 일 전

      Yes

    • Heinz Fritz
      Heinz Fritz 23 일 전

      And he's using it damn right for promotion. Smart guy, probably because he's asian

    • Ligma
      Ligma 26 일 전

      u here
      u there
      ur everywhere

  • venisontron
    venisontron 29 일 전 +641

    "Because children don't have money, they can't think of a way to get out of the situation." still kills me every time

    • Michelle Hood
      Michelle Hood 17 시간 전

      I am just enjoying the content all over again simply by reading the darn comments...hilarious...this guy is a darn genius..!!!

    • Joseph Byrne
      Joseph Byrne 8 일 전 +1

      "Very effective."

    • Julian Hayes
      Julian Hayes 10 일 전

      @Yuxuan Huang but that's when I develop a really strong desire for cookies, my means of escape and to munch on whilst trying to write essays.

    • Yuxuan Huang
      Yuxuan Huang 11 일 전

      @Julian Hayes WHY? I learned to exit the entrance empty-handed at 10. WHAT A FAILURE ! (just kidding) But it was quite embarrassing back then

    • Julian Hayes
      Julian Hayes 25 일 전 +12

      That's why to this day when I enter the supermarket and turns out I don't need to get something, I still buy something so that I can leave

  • Sally
    Sally 개월 전 +298

    “It’s not in aisle 8.”
    I completely lost it. I was laughing so hard that I had to skip back a few times because I kept missing lines from laughing so hard 🤣

    • babamaude
      babamaude 9 일 전 +1

      Me too 😂😂😂😂

  • errol kim
    errol kim 2 개월 전 +613

    That tool scene in the garage is my childhood in a nutshell. I used to just start panicking and crying in seconds....the thing I'd been sent for was never there. Or if it was , I knew it by a different name.
    Emotional Damage ensued....and it's with me to this day.

    • Kat Azodnem
      Kat Azodnem 9 일 전

      Whenever my grandma tells me to get something i just hope that what I got was right 😭

    • errol kim
      errol kim 12 일 전

      Cheers Steve. Unfortunately my dad says that under 50k likes for my comment is FAILURE and I need to find a new outlet for my EMOTIONAL DAMAGE. Hang on he's introducing me to the neighbours BRB

    • ForeverTya21
      ForeverTya21 15 일 전

      Same here. I was dealt emotional damage this way at the hands of my grandmother lol🤣🤣

    • I am Ghast36
      I am Ghast36 28 일 전 +4

      Nonono, the best part of this is when you were looking in that particular spot the thing you were looking for wasn't there and then when they go to get it, VOILA its in their hands and they call you blind.
      Emotional damage

    • anjing babi
      anjing babi 개월 전 +2

      Childhood? Now i am an adult with kids. My dad still orders me to do menial task like this when i visit.
      And he still gives vague instructions like in the video.

  • McKenzie Morris
    McKenzie Morris 22 일 전 +52

    I'm not even Asian and I can definitely relate to most of this (especially the reverse grocery line) LMAO 🤣🤣🤣! Asian parents and single black moms are pretty similar.

  • Carlos Morales
    Carlos Morales 4 개월 전 +8308

    I love how he doesn't even refer to his son as son but as his "failure", lol.

  • jarod s
    jarod s 18 일 전 +64

    "The unfairness adds extra flavor to the emotional damage"
    He’s so right

  • Emelin
    Emelin 개월 전 +73

    as someone with an asian mom, i can say that i did get emotional damage
    to this day, she still tells me to do something in such a vague way, then gets angry at me when i ask about it- she always goes "be more flexible!" or "use your brain!"

    • Supremé King
      Supremé King 3 일 전 +3

      Emotional damage. Very effective

    • N Fels
      N Fels 14 일 전 +4

      Yo, stepmom, the baby's a bit sick. Snotty and heaving a bit, but should be fine, the doctor had a look at says it's just a cold.
      -Do the therapy!
      The what?
      -Do the therapy for baby fever!
      What therapy precisely?
      -The therapy of course! Come on, are you dim! That baby is suffering! Get to it!
      At least I get to blink in confusion with my "Mandarin.exe has stopped working. Dunno what you're saying, lol"-look, but I really feel for my wife at times like that.

  • deezworld
    deezworld 개월 전 +77

    It's funny how strict parents of different countries and races are so similar haha. I'm African, and can relate. However, "emotional damage" is stuck in my head and I can't stop laughing. Nice one bro...very effective 😁

  • DarkRed'sRevenge
    DarkRed'sRevenge 2 개월 전 +407

    1:07 literally happened to me a few days ago. I took both phillips and flat head of the screwdrivers specifically because I didn't want to get roasted. Took 2 sizes small and large.
    Still got called useless because we didn't own the correct size
    *I can guarantee the emotional damage*

    • N Fels
      N Fels 14 일 전 +2

      Protip: For father's day you buy an electrical screwdriver with a full set of bits.
      Then you've a legit excuse to always bring the full set and you couldn't get it wrong even if you wanted to.

    • Viona fernandes
      Viona fernandes 개월 전 +3

      @Ken Feng omg 😭😭😭 accurate af

    • Jinsi JH K
      Jinsi JH K 개월 전 +10

      "This is why you get no job and live in my house no allowance this month"

    • Rithvik Muthyalapati
      Rithvik Muthyalapati 개월 전 +14

      @Ken Feng And then they add the "If you talk back one more time, I will kick you out of the house"

    • Gloria A. Oquendo
      Gloria A. Oquendo 개월 전

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • PrizMatex
    PrizMatex 4 개월 전 +21096

    This man owns the word *Emotional Damage* and no one can prove me wrong.

    • Aj T
      Aj T 4 시간 전

      I concur!

    • errol kim
      errol kim 17 시간 전

      He walked 25 miles to collect the words "emotional damage" and fought a dragon in the way back. And....he had left 2 minute rice on the hob. He got back before it burned.

    • Michelle Hood
      Michelle Hood 17 시간 전

      Very Effective .!!! 😂

    • GlassMan
      GlassMan 일 전

      @Bottom Text Nft-

    • Shirayuki Nobunaga
      Shirayuki Nobunaga 2 일 전

      The man's name is Satou Kazuma, he suffers emotional damage on a daily basis

  • Ellen Cooper
    Ellen Cooper 14 일 전 +58

    Eres un ídolo 4.FO/LIAZELT siempre en mi corazón ❤🇺🇸
    1 ( hermosa ) 9.7/10 2 ( elecciones ) 9.5/10
    3 ( culturales ) 9.3/10 Son unos de los mejoret conciertos

  • Lina Park Art
    Lina Park Art 24 일 전 +32

    Omg, this is so relatable. My dad would ask me for a bucket, so I brought him one. Then he said, 'no no no.. the one to scoop the water'. So I brought him a water scooper. And then he went, 'No, why you so stupid?! That thing that sweeps the water!'.... he was looking for the squeegee floor wiper. *mind blown* 💀

    • Supremé King
      Supremé King 3 일 전

      That is EMOTIONAL DAMAGE, very effective. 😂😂

    • BenchART
      BenchART 10 일 전

      @Lina Park Art Good point, never thought of that
      Anyway... "Son?"
      I'm 32..
      ___Died from emotional damage___

    • Lina Park Art
      Lina Park Art 10 일 전 +1

      @BenchART lol, OK son, here's a tip for you. I'm equally lost with parents but in terms of female matters, this is the exact translation.
      1) when she gives you vague indications of what she wants, it probably means she's not sure what she really wants yet. BUT, she has an idea of what she wants.
      2) when you bring her the thing you think she wants. She is now sure that is not what she wants. This is now your cue to ask her what she really wants 😂.
      All the best, my fellow emotionally damaged friend.

    • BenchART
      BenchART 10 일 전 +1

      Shit, I'm Portuguese and even today my GF gives me vague indications of what she wants, and then I take her something and she says that it's not that what she wants :D
      Even my parents used to do stuff like that to me all the time.
      Now all of this makes sense why I lose my patiente quickly when this type of situations happen to me.
      All this people have been applying a very effective EMOTIONAL DAMAGE against me.

  • Seth Yuikora
    Seth Yuikora 6 일 전 +7

    Hold The Light was definitely a bonding experience I'll never forget. Bonus points if dad drops a bolt into the undercarriage, but blames it on you. You just want it all to end, then it happens. "Just go away, you're no help." You have to spend the next week reaffirming yourself that you were definitely doing everything he told you to do, trying not to be gas-lit. Steven, why do you have to dig up these old wounds?

  • Navnit Kumar
    Navnit Kumar 12 일 전 +3

    I was my dad's choir boy growing up. He fancied himself a fixer, imagining that he could fix anything around the house without hiring a specialist because he had grown up working in for mechanics and electricians and plumbers and the like. The light thing always happened only the verbal chastising was much more venom laced. Meant to cut deep, true emotional damage that might require therapy but in truth, it becomes something you have to bury deep inside yourself to only examine when you feel safe if you ever try to examine it anyway.
    I ended up being like him a little, even though I hated him, I also fancied myself a handy person aroung the house who could fix most things, only I grew up with the internet so instead of calling up past experiences I learned things from KRclip and applied that to my jobs coming out with much better results than my dad. Moreover I learned to be self sufficient so instead of someone holding a light for me I got myself a light helmet, instead of someone holding the wood for me to cut I bought clamps to hold it in place. I don't need someone to constantly order around and yell at to get the job done.

  • Kovid Ghiya
    Kovid Ghiya 4 개월 전 +8814

    Fun fact Steven's dad was probably a failure to Steven's grandad. It's every Asian kids legacy. To be a FAILURE.

    • #1Madara stan
      #1Madara stan 4 일 전

      except for those who get accepted into harvard

    • Susana A.
      Susana A. 개월 전

      ​@John Yves Tan The parents themselves aren't EVEN high qualities, therefore, they project all their failures on their kids. EMOTIONAL DAMAGE.

    • Peter Yip
      Peter Yip 개월 전

      5000 years of hereditary failure, that’s a LOT of Emotional Damage!

    • Bubbly Makamae
      Bubbly Makamae 개월 전

      🤣

    • A. S.
      A. S. 개월 전 +1

      @Mokster Destroying a child's self esteem, making them lose a needed sense of security that they need from their parents and creating lifelong trauma is child abuse, not love. A lot of the comments left by people here is classic abuse and it was completely unnecessary for any of their parents to do this to their children.

  • Joe Bloggs
    Joe Bloggs 개월 전 +26

    I suffered emotional damage and takes me some time to get over it. Now you have helped me realise this is an effect from being a failure. Thanks Steven He

  • Yukiko Fujiwara
    Yukiko Fujiwara 22 일 전 +18

    I'm just prepping my notes here. My father's choice form of _emotional damage_ was to not speak to me for a few days when he was reminded I was a failure. Is it possible to combine these techniques, or do I need to be a board-certified asian to pull it off?

    • Yukiko Fujiwara
      Yukiko Fujiwara 5 일 전

      @Matias Kendall you made it too real lol

    • Matias Kendall
      Matias Kendall 5 일 전 +1

      It doesn't matter who or what you get you'll be a failure while applying these techniques because you're not your cousin who your parents always compare you to

  • Moku Freeman
    Moku Freeman 2 개월 전 +38

    I remember working with my father in law and we were inflating a tire, he told me to tell him when it was at 40 PSI so I told him when it got there, and he told me to keep going until 45, then 50 and I was like Uhhh...should we stop it? and he said keep going, and then I just backed away right before it popped the compressor hose off, I then got yelled at for not stopping it at 40 PSI.
    Emotional Damage.

  • Sick Student IRL
    Sick Student IRL 2 개월 전 +105

    As funny and sarcastic as this video, I genuinely hope every parents who watched this will stop or never did any of these. It's terrible...
    Also this is REAL comedy depicting asian cultures on raising a child🤣

    • Sick Student IRL
      Sick Student IRL 개월 전

      @Gareth Tucker lmao 🤣

    • Hecate Aurelia
      Hecate Aurelia 2 개월 전 +2

      My mom laughs about doing all these things 🥲

    • Gareth Tucker
      Gareth Tucker 2 개월 전 +6

      Bad parents: taking notes on how to improve
      Good parents: wondering why some people even bother having children if their goal is to do this.

  • fat boi
    fat boi 4 개월 전 +3360

    Thanks to you, my entire school is now repeatedly saying "emotional damage" whenever someone says the word emotional. Which is a lot. Thank you Steven.
    Edit: What. 1.4k likes. Thanks guys that's pretty cool.

    • Andrija Cejovic
      Andrija Cejovic 3 개월 전

      Same with mine, it became universal at this point

    • Aoyami Uriko
      Aoyami Uriko 3 개월 전 +1

      @Steven He trademark something and make merchandise, dont miss the bag, u make a lot of ppls day and deserve the fruit of it

    • fat boi
      fat boi 4 개월 전

      @Angelo Absolutely

    • Angelo
      Angelo 4 개월 전

      @fat boi Can i have Aqua?

  • Anna Karo
    Anna Karo 10 일 전 +5

    I remember how I was "coincidentally" doing homework whenever dad was repairing anything, so my brother had to take that emotional damage alone. But reverse grocery line is my childhood trauma.

  • nyaffein
    nyaffein 2 개월 전 +39

    This is so true loll... I remember when my mom used to go to another aisle at the grocery store and I was 6 years old at the time. So, I lost her at the moment because the department store was so big. I have a little sister who was 3 and when she realized that mum wasn't there, she cried. I tried my best as the eldest to found someone who could help me found mom, so I got to the information center by myself with my sister in hand then mum come pick us up after finished buying her groceries 😂 that makes my mum thinks I'm no longer a failure since I'm not kidnapped and cried at the time

  • Amanita Muscaria
    Amanita Muscaria 2 일 전 +1

    My dad tried to pull some of this shit with me when I was a kid as well. I wouldn't have any of it.
    Taped a flashlight to my dad's head.
    Brought him all the tools I could find, he can pick out what he needs.
    I gave my dad emotional damage.

  • Lauren Gonzalez
    Lauren Gonzalez 8 일 전 +39

    Concepts, Perception, Levels, -Visuals- , Realism, Genuineness, Vybez, Kickback. *Here for it!!!!!!*
    Es muy difícil escoger una *4.Fo/Hotxmilf* como la *favorita* del ámore, pero está siempre simplemente es otro nivel, 💕
    -Gracias Benito- ❤.
    Son unos de los mejores conciertos

  • Kshitiz Bhandari
    Kshitiz Bhandari 4 개월 전 +3966

    “You said hold it low.”
    “Not as low as your IQ”
    Had me 😂😂
    Edit: and I’m getting more notifications from this comment than my own channel😂

    • R - G - C
      R - G - C 3 개월 전

      @Kshitiz Bhandari Then why is 11 notification more than your whole channel?

    • Kshitiz Bhandari
      Kshitiz Bhandari 3 개월 전

      @R - G - C says the man with 129 subscribers

    • R - G - C
      R - G - C 3 개월 전

      Then your channel must be quite dead lol.

    • Emploice Muswashans
      Emploice Muswashans 3 개월 전

      _*Emotional damage_

  • João Alexandre
    João Alexandre 2 개월 전 +12

    I once had a very important test when I was a young teenager. I lived with my japanese grandfather. I had a really strong stomach ache and had to go to the bathroom, in part out of nervousness I think. He called me and I told you I was in the bathroom, but he didn't hear me. He got frustrated, and just left in his car. I had to run all the way to the school, was let in late probably out of pity, made the test in tears and was chewed out over not yelling where I was loud enough when I got home.
    I got the top grade on my year for that test (it was a multiple choice simulation similar to college admission exams).
    It was, of course, "nothing more than my obligation".

    • oriricha
      oriricha 15 일 전 +1

      @João Alexandre it makes sense. For some time I’ve thought that having a bit too much pressure from your caretakers (or parents) would be better than having none. Being raised by people who don’t care what you do with your life either way is not necessarily more relaxing because you grow up without the tools required to “fight your way up” so to speak. Then everything becomes a bigger chore than it actually is and people linger in mediocrity like there is nowhere out. Anyways, thanks for answering. The trick is in the balance, as usual.

    • João Alexandre
      João Alexandre 15 일 전 +2

      @oriricha lol I actually got into a pretty good med school and tried to finish it until I had a bad mental breakdown and dropped out. Nowadays after some years of therapy and medication I'm mostly fine, working some freelance jobs and halfway through a history graduation (thankfully in my country the best universities are the public ones, which are free). But this pressure definetly fucked up a good portion of my life - and some members of my family kind of never forgave me for making it into a medicine grad school and having the audacity of not wanting to be a doctor. It's hard to say how much of it was the overall mentality of toxic demands for academic excellence and how much of it was people trying to make me become a doctor regardless of my wishes because both of those things are very closely linked together. But overall from what I've seen from other Asian descended kids I know, I'd say that this way of raising kids makes most of them become either full of neurosis that they have to hide, severely depressed, or both. The few kids who turn out both happy and successful are so in spite of their home lives, not because of it. There's a *lot* of mutual complaining whenever we meet about how all this pressure gave us great math scores but we never learned how to do a lot of practical stuff or just deal with conflict or disagreements because we were supposed to be obedient and accepting, both from other kids I grew up with or with children of other Asian parents with this sort of mindset I ended up meeting afterwards.

    • oriricha
      oriricha 18 일 전

      and how successful are you today? I’m just curious of the effects of this

  • Sakshi Shyama
    Sakshi Shyama 18 일 전 +10

    That tiny " they all have handles 🥺" had me wheezing lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • online-v
    online-v 개월 전 +28

    As an Asian the flashlight one is one of the things I did about 29 times each time I adjusted it was apparently not right.
    The one where Steven got the groceries was just what I did to myself by accident as a kid

  • Karma
    Karma 일 전

    I CANT GET OVER THESE JOKES 😂😂😂😂 I RELATE TO EVERYTHING IN THE FALIURE MANAGEMENT SERIES SO MUCH. PLEASE GIVE US MORE

  • Dr. Phil Peanut M&M
    Dr. Phil Peanut M&M 4 개월 전 +3916

    Ok. Can we be serious.
    Stevens dad is literally carrying his yt channel.

    • Lady Estella Rose
      Lady Estella Rose 2 개월 전

      @Miles Marcuson Darn it, you said it before I could!

    • Miles Marcuson
      Miles Marcuson 3 개월 전 +2

      Emotional damage.

    • Dave Manoj
      Dave Manoj 4 개월 전 +2

      @Steven He what happend tot ur eye in this vid. like theres a scar

    • Taz Virdee
      Taz Virdee 4 개월 전 +1

      Lol

  • Mrs. Petra-san
    Mrs. Petra-san 2 개월 전 +22

    When you said the technique of leaving the child in the line for the register I remembered my mom doing that to me always, because she remembered something in the last minute xD

  • KittiezGamingYT
    KittiezGamingYT 개월 전 +20

    im already dying at the part where "steven's dad" is complaining about the light moving around "starting a disco" XD

  • Aar8n
    Aar8n 6 일 전 +2

    This video had me thinking of the "Old Enough" Japanese TV show. I wonder how many of those kids experience emotional damage. 😂

  • cow raiser Milton
    cow raiser Milton 3 일 전

    The tool part is so relatable since I'm a visual learner it's hard to imagine what a specific tool looks like unless someone shows it to me but with my parents I just can't 😭🤣🤣

  • Vivian Pham
    Vivian Pham 4 개월 전 +2179

    I am extremely worried for the well being of Steven’s future children...

    • Oumaima
      Oumaima 3 일 전

      .

    • Nuclear Potato
      Nuclear Potato 7 일 전

      Nah his children will have more work experience at age 9 then most 30 years olds they will be fine

    • Pineapple Goddess
      Pineapple Goddess 12 일 전

      We all r

    • N Fels
      N Fels 14 일 전

      @madtabby
      Doesn't even go back that far. All things DIY and engineering related in our house went like that and I'm 36 now.

    • Emine Cinar
      Emine Cinar 16 일 전

      No they are not his children but failures

  • Supremé King
    Supremé King 3 일 전

    I've had my share of emotional damage, the toolbox scene reminded me of it, i'm an adult and it still haunts me, very effective :/

  • Four Eyes
    Four Eyes 2 일 전

    Lmao 😂my dad used to send me to the grocery store for what at the time was weird stuff to me like bouillon cubes. I would come home without it then he would make me take him back to the grocery store and point it out for me. Everyone who worked there probably thought I was weird for leaving then coming back so many times😂

  • Audrey Walker
    Audrey Walker 개월 전 +12

    1 ❤ Hermosa eleccion Odading.Xxlovezzz.Uno de mejor
    -2 ( elecciones ) 9.6/10-
    -3 ( culturales ) 9.7/10-
    Son unos de los mejores conciertosn

  • starlight
    starlight 5 일 전

    as an asian, I've experienced every one of this. the toolbox one is especially true, my mum will just be like "use your common sense, how can this fit?" when her instructions weren't even clear😭

  • Christopher Cheney
    Christopher Cheney 3 개월 전 +5505

    “The unfairness adds extra flavor to the emotional damage” hits soo close to home lol

    • lo re
      lo re 26 일 전

      I remember the worst spanking I ever got as a child. Will never forget it. I was about 10 years old. I told my mother I was going down the street, about 4 houses down, to play with a friend. She said OK. My friend's adult sister had just purchased an RV and parked it in front of their house, so I, my older sister, and other kids from the block went into the parked RV to check it out. I guess my mom called out for me (this is MANY years ago, WAAY before cell phones), and she didn't see me at first. When she did find me, she was furious, grabbed me by the arm in front of my friends, and spanked me the whole way home, propelling me down the sidewalk, spank, step, spank, step, spank, step, screaming at me all the way. No one else got in trouble for being inside the (perfectly safe, parked) RV, not even my sister, just me. I was mortified knowing my friends watched my mom spank me all the way down the block, and silently outraged at the injustice of it because I was where I said I would be, in front of my friend's house. The unfairness added extra flavor to the emotional damage!!
      (Steven, please use a version of this in one of your videos! Maybe the catharsis I will get from seeing it will help heal the emotional damage. Not joking.)

    • Dawn Ethan
      Dawn Ethan 3 개월 전 +3

      Lmao I read this along him xD at the same time what a coincidence

    • Malakai J
      Malakai J 3 개월 전 +15

      Way close that you start feeling clusterphobic

    • Jack P
      Jack P 3 개월 전 +20

      Far too effective 😞

    • Astral king
      Astral king 3 개월 전 +30

      Very effective

  • Jay The Human
    Jay The Human 2 개월 전 +2

    I remember when my older bro showed me your channel a couple years ago. God I feel stupid for not subbing sooner.
    God bless Steven.
    You are a comedy god, draped in wrappings of comedy gold.
    *You are the cure to emotional damage.*

  • Daisy Crazy
    Daisy Crazy 20 일 전 +1

    this is honestly so true in my family.... and in most families lol

  • Sixx
    Sixx 13 일 전

    I watch this series all the time I can’t wait for the next one😂

  • BeKazakh
    BeKazakh 24 일 전 +1

    Ahah! Yo, from Kazakhstan. Now I know who taught my parents to these skills:) Seems like our asian cultures are more similar than I expected. I am impressed. All jokes are worked

  • Pauline Peters
    Pauline Peters 4 개월 전 +1180

    I like how he doesn't say your child, instead he says failure.

    • Kirana💋
      Kirana💋 4 개월 전

      Only for fans over 18 years old DATE-YOUNGGIRLS.ONLINE
      tricks I do not know
      Megan: "Hotter"
      Hopi: "Sweeter"
      Joonie: "Cooler"
      Yoongi: "Butter
      So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
      Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
      Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
      Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
      Dene: '' Muzdak ''
      Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
      Aç köz arstan
      Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
      Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
      Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
      They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
      💗❤️💌💘

    • indeedical
      indeedical 4 개월 전

      F, your comment got attacked by bots.

    • David Kendrick
      David Kendrick 4 개월 전

      I know, right? I'm glad I didn't have to say it.

    • Eca
      Eca 4 개월 전

      Only for fans over 18 years old YOUNGAUNT.ONLINE
      mañas no se la
      Megan: "Hotter"
      Hopi: "Sweeter"
      Joonie: "Cooler"
      Yoongi: "Butter
      Asi con toy y sus mañas no se la lease que escriba bien mamon hay nomas pa ra reirse un rato y no estar triste y estresado.por la vida dura que se vive hoy .
      Köz karaş: ''Taŋ kaldım''
      Erinder: ''Sezimdüü''
      Jılmayuu: ''Tattuuraak''
      Dene: ''Muzdak''
      Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
      Aç köz arstan
      Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
      Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu gana taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. ''Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt'' dep oylodu arstan.
      Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu.#垃圾
      Son unos de los mejores conciertos , no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente
      💗❤️💌💘

  • Matthew Legend
    Matthew Legend 2 개월 전 +3

    I grew up with European parents and this was exactly how it was. It was a nightmare

  • Joj Rosos
    Joj Rosos 개월 전

    Hahaha! This is truly legit bruh, I could totally feel myself with this video (especially the tools and the using the flashlight for your dad), sh-t happens when u goofed up. It was truly a memorable Asian home experience

  • ForeverTya21
    ForeverTya21 16 일 전 +1

    That's true that children who don't have money will feel the full weight of emotional damage in a supermarket when their parents are not in line with them. Lmao! 🤣😂😆

  • Mi’s workspace
    Mi’s workspace 10 일 전 +1

    The hold the light is so true, I got so much scoldings just yesterday when my dad was fixing the switches. Whats with asian dads doing everything by their own, they think they are AI robot or something

  • Jane Andrei Matila
    Jane Andrei Matila 3 개월 전 +9410

    "you said hold it low!"
    "not as low as your IQ"
    this cracks me up every time LMAO

    • LK
      LK 28 일 전

      @chozzzy he’s Cantonese my guy, and he specifically once said “he’s abc” American born Chinese

    • Alex Chan
      Alex Chan 개월 전

      yeah made me die

    • Games
      Games 2 개월 전 +2

      E M O T I N A L D A M A G E

  • SpyCat81
    SpyCat81 일 전

    He has done the emotional damage stuff for so long but I always burst out laughing

  • G
    G 2 개월 전 +1

    This is what my Filipino mom does to my dad, even though she barely drives and my dad's been for 40 years. If he doesn't brake before the car in front of him starts even slowing down, he gets yelled at 🤣 emotional damage that lasts the entire car ride. Very effective

    • Erin Biko
      Erin Biko 2 개월 전

      My mum does this to me! I have so much anxiety when I have to drive her 😂😅 major emotional damage

  • Elvis Sun
    Elvis Sun 2 개월 전

    Thanks! I checked AIKI's stock history and learned what failure stands for. It went from $150k to $0.39 😂

  • Angry Juice
    Angry Juice 8 일 전

    Can we all agree that this man has the right to coin the word emotional damage

  • AnonR
    AnonR 4 개월 전 +3840

    “Its not in aisle 8” and “Leave your kid at the register so you can go get something stupid” is depressingly accurate.

    • Jonathan Jackson
      Jonathan Jackson 3 개월 전 +1

      Im a cashier so I've seen it happen 😃❤️😁😁

    • G Siya
      G Siya 4 개월 전 +1

      They'll be like get the brown color one
      In reality it's orange or red 🥲

    • Gordon Xu
      Gordon Xu 4 개월 전 +4

      How to counter: just walk out of the shop and let parent wait for you

    • Upsidedown
      Upsidedown 4 개월 전 +23

      What's even worse, is when your parents leave you at the register and the cashier starts scanning your items and your mom still isn't back

    • Cypressgem
      Cypressgem 4 개월 전 +3

      I naruto run when my parents tell me that like I just hear the people speaking in chinese:
      ''Why is that child running like that''

  • Youtube Premium
    Youtube Premium 2 개월 전

    This is so accurate it still gives me chills.

  • C-SCI-3
    C-SCI-3 2 개월 전

    Lowkey miss the days where Steven's dad would noticeably smile when describing how much pain each method inflicts

  • Christy Scott
    Christy Scott 2 개월 전 +16

    Hermosa elección ❤️ likeex.Uno
    de los mejores 😘
    21:23 Senada: "Hermoso"
    21:24 Megan: "Hotter"
    24:23 Hopi: "Sweeter"
    25:27 Joonie: "Cooler"
    20:23 Yoongi: "Butter"
    23:26 Amor: "Momentos"
    17:51 Son unos de los mejores conciertos 🖤
    20:26 Megan: "Hotter"
    10:25 Alana: "Awesome"
    11:24 Belleza doops
    35:23 Son unos de los mejores conciertos, no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente 🖤
    10:32 Hopi: "Sweeter" uz39

  • virgofairy88
    virgofairy88 13 일 전

    My mom did some of things to me and my sister unintentionally-but we still have some emotional damage. Great video!

  • Kamarr Johnson
    Kamarr Johnson 4 개월 전 +1702

    dude really said “not as low as your IQ” i couldn’t hold it together and my entire job heard me cracking up in the break room

  • XxlxvnderXx
    XxlxvnderXx 개월 전 +2

    My parents definitely took notes from here because they did every single thing mentioned here to me 😂😂😂

  • Oh Wow
    Oh Wow 2 개월 전

    Thank you for explaining emotional damage for us. 😆

  • Dominique Echo
    Dominique Echo 2 개월 전 +7

    The fact that I still can't keep a straight face everytime he says "eMoTiOnaL dAmAgE" 💀

  • Vimean Meng
    Vimean Meng 15 일 전

    All these points are spot on haha. Very effective ways to cause emotional damage. I am a living proof lol

  • AM
    AM 4 개월 전 +1724

    "You must contradict yourself"- yes, yes. Asian parents do that. I work in the same company as my father, some days feel like a nightmare.
    People who don't belong to a stereotypical Asian family might say, "why don't you just leave then?"
    Ah, yes. Clearly, you don't know the guilt and responsibility that comes with the Asian Eldest Child Syndrome. You carry the weight of responsibility with you until the day you die. Like Spiderman. But instead of an entire city, you have naggy parents and the ghosts of your ancestors to judge you.

    • AM
      AM 4 개월 전

      @leonardo899 It's my mother who does that in my family. As for my father, he likes to "forget" things and then gas light his family. And suddenly, everyone is wrong and he is "misunderstood". 🙃 #ohJoy #SoFun #ILoveMyFamily

    • Boszly Wekxzer
      Boszly Wekxzer 4 개월 전

      @AM 😢

    • AM
      AM 4 개월 전

      @Boszly Wekxzer Maybe 😶

    • leonardo899
      leonardo899 4 개월 전 +3

      My dad would always tell me to get him the 'thing', and then would get angry when I asked which 'thing'.

    • sweetcinnamonpnchkin
      sweetcinnamonpnchkin 4 개월 전 +1

      @Bot Spitter- Holt crap. I was gonna mention the Germans. If it’s a traditional German family get ready for emotional damage.

  • -𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐜𝐥𝐨𝐮𝐝

    Very good failure management.
    My children will never be the same.
    This has been recommended for parents for generations in my family, and you are our savior.
    My ancestors thank you for this guide.

  • Persassy Galathynius

    As an asian kid every single punishment is so relatable
    Also "ask your failure to go get a tool but be so vague it's impossible" really hits hard

  • Cora Stuart
    Cora Stuart 4 일 전

    If I want to laugh I watch your videos! I love them ❤

  • WayTooMuchSwag
    WayTooMuchSwag 개월 전 +1

    Saw the word "failure" in a headline this morning and my brain instantly read it in Steven's voice 😂

  • Daniel Hutchinson
    Daniel Hutchinson 3 개월 전 +4438

    My parents did reverse grocery line a number of times. The flashbacks are constantly delivering extra Emotional Damage throughout my adult life.
    Very Effective.

    • Jason Todd
      Jason Todd 일 전

      Mine would say "Wait here,I forgot some Ice or I have to Check the Price for Something" Would make me Red in the Face them Putting me on the Spot.

    • Totally a Hololive Simp
      Totally a Hololive Simp 4 일 전

      pretty much I've expirienced all of this lmao. I still has trauma going outside and WILL always be awkward speaking to store clerks or waitresses to the point I don't even wanna go outside and I'm 18.
      edit: my parents also did the embarrassing you in public or infront of my friends, man i don't even wanna talk that trauma.

    • yaqub imran
      yaqub imran 개월 전

      Atleast we now have something in common

    • youtube user
      youtube user 개월 전

      permanent debuff

    • Zero Striker
      Zero Striker 2 개월 전

      same

  • Chris J
    Chris J 2 개월 전 +1

    Brilliant. I’ve been using this technique on my 8 year old. It really works!! 🤣😂🤣

  • Ariz0na Heat
    Ariz0na Heat 개월 전

    For the Reverse grocery line thing, I feel like a child would just become numb and just not care and do absolutely nothing, whenever you ask or say of 🤣

  • FireNinja743
    FireNinja743 2 개월 전 +1

    I remember when Steven used to have under 500k subscribers. Amazing progression.

  • Allison Taylor
    Allison Taylor 2 개월 전 +11

    18:26 Hermosa elección 😘 xxlike.Uno de los mejores conciertos ❤
    ❤Asi con toy y sus mañas no se la
    20:11 Amor: "Momentos"
    10:21 Yoongi: "Butter"
    10:21 Senada: "Hermoso"
    40:21 Alfiora: "Preety"
    30:21 Megan: "Hotter"
    50:21 Alana: "Awesome"
    21:21 Belleza doops
    25:20 Son unos de los mejores conciertos, no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente 🖤
    40:31 Hopi: "Sweeter" Kx02
    20:20 Joonie: "Cooler" 🌹♀💯
    17:50 Son unos de los mejores conciertos 🖤

    • SupPotato123
      SupPotato123 2 개월 전 +1

      ¡Aye aye aye! Los comentarios de este video no es el Lugar por esa. No es video de concierto. ¡va a los comentarios de otro vídeo con tus tonterías!

  • Simplistic
    Simplistic 4 개월 전 +2538

    The emotional damage move is very powerful. No amount of self-confidence or therapy will ever stop it.

  • Action Man
    Action Man 2 개월 전 +1

    This Emotional Damage is so Iconic now and I love it 😂

  • Immolo
    Immolo 5 일 전

    I feel like my old man built a time machine just to use these tips on me when I was growing up!

  • Bielsky
    Bielsky 12 일 전

    I'm a grown ass man, the other day I went with my mom to the grocery, we were next in line at the counter, she forgot tissue papers and went to get them, you could say I was sweating so much as I was about to pay and she still was not there

  • Dr Vinnie Boombatz
    Dr Vinnie Boombatz 2 개월 전

    I've never been so happy in my life to have emotional damage.

  • GeLLee
    GeLLee 4 개월 전 +3705

    no one can deliver the line "emotional damage" better than Steven He.

    • EmperorMurfy
      EmperorMurfy 3 개월 전 +1

      @Little 7s na not all asians. also other people who aren't asian can do it to its just easier when you learn chinese and have the accent. cause i have a american friend who can do it. decently well yet a korean one sucks at doing "emotional damage" which in it self IS emotional damage.

    • Little 7s
      Little 7s 3 개월 전

      asians can i guess

    • EmperorMurfy
      EmperorMurfy 3 개월 전

      I take on ur challenge

    • lsh
      lsh 3 개월 전

      @darkdragon99 because steven he is the one

    • CATELlegend1
      CATELlegend1 3 개월 전 +2

      Yes if there is a "world history session with God as host " after life, there must be a honorable prize to this.

  • Johnny
    Johnny 2 개월 전

    "but be so vague it's impossible" gets me every time lmao

  • Olivial
    Olivial 2 개월 전

    I think this is just every parent.. ever… this video gave me memories of my parents doing THE EXACT SAME THINGS and its making me anxious in the funniest way possible lmao

  • Mackenzie
    Mackenzie 16 일 전 +1

    Wait till Steven learns that in some places, you can sue for *emotional damage*

  • Bluish Blow
    Bluish Blow 2 개월 전

    i was so frustrated interacting with my parents, but somehow knoing that i don't suffer alone makes me feel better

  • Man like salimo
    Man like salimo 4 개월 전 +2164

    This man will make us all proud when raising children
    Edit: Holy shit 1.5k likes thanks guys

  • HeslaySnave
    HeslaySnave 2 개월 전

    Im fairly sure every dad has their own way of causing emotional damage

  • Arletta Sloan
    Arletta Sloan 개월 전

    Hahaha My family members who never ask enough "Why?" questions, much less the rest that a good reporter should ask, doesn't believe me that Grandma said we have a wee bit of Chinese ancestry. I posted this so they could see a pretty good imitation of Dad doing work on anything. Oh my word!
    LOL LOL Must be on both sides of the family, after all. I wish I had this video when I had to go see a counselor in Jr. High.

  • the unknown axolotl
    the unknown axolotl 2 개월 전

    even without emtional damage this guy is so funny 🤣🤣

  • idolphin
    idolphin 2 개월 전

    1:40 I feel you bro. This always happens to me

  • Ms. Howllet
    Ms. Howllet 4 개월 전 +3518

    Dad: "You doctor yet?"
    Son: "No dad, I'm 12"
    Dad: "Talk to me when you doctor."

    • d1mitrov
      d1mitrov 3 개월 전

      @Broockle why is it bad?

    • Brian Kay
      Brian Kay 3 개월 전 +1

      Not even a lie. They still won't listen to you when you do.

    • DrunkSamurai
      DrunkSamurai 3 개월 전

      No.

  • James Thomas
    James Thomas 2 개월 전

    His emotional damage has transcended other memes...well done!!

  • Shadow Warrior
    Shadow Warrior 2 개월 전

    Bro this is good content! I use emotional damage on my Freinds all the time!!!❤️🤣

  • Milkshake Draws
    Milkshake Draws 2 개월 전 +4

    My dad isn’t even Asian yet this is still completely accurate

  • RC Birds
    RC Birds 2 개월 전 +1

    "Ask your failure..." as long he's not my dad I celebrate his methods😊

  • Sarah Schopick
    Sarah Schopick 4 개월 전 +2371

    OMG my mom totally does both “grocery line” and “reverse grocery line”. Once she even told me to put the cart away and started driving away while I was doing it. So, I relate to this video on a spiritual level.

    • ChumpyLumpy
      ChumpyLumpy 4 개월 전

      @Some Yeti with Internet Access bro for the grocery one I legit just let people go in front of me when it was my turn

    • Feed The Twinkie
      Feed The Twinkie 4 개월 전 +1

      Haha, why must our moms drive away when we put the cart back?

    • Joey Matsumoto
      Joey Matsumoto 4 개월 전 +3

      Same, that’s like the most terrifying thing on earth when the line gets closer and closer but ur parent still didn’t come back

    • 僕の伝説の星
      僕の伝説の星 4 개월 전 +2

      @An Intellectual Clone thanks, I sometimes struggle to understand the difference between Spanish and Portuguese because I've never taken them

    • An Intellectual Clone
      An Intellectual Clone 4 개월 전 +1

      @僕の伝説の星 well, its, uh, its spanish, but yeah, report that bot

  • Nekobaby
    Nekobaby 개월 전

    Reverse Grocery Line... My mum still does this to this day. 😭 She constantly wanders off to get something else when we're already in checkout. Been driving me nuts since I was a kid. Lol.

  • 《 Viser 》
    《 Viser 》 2 개월 전

    You are just hilarious Steven 😂

  • An User
    An User 2 개월 전

    Forty minutes in and he's already giving trolling lessons.
    I barely take emotional damage anymore, I just pretend to so that when they realize it.. it gives it to them.